= Takkyuubin desu.
= Delivery service.
= Gokurou sama.
= Thank you (for your work ) .
= Mata, benkyou sabotteru no?
= Are you slacking off in your studies again?
= Otagai sama
= Looks who’s talking.
We just got new Team Maggie members, Zelda Sensei and Nayru Sensei.
They are going to teach you the word 様 ( = sama).
You might think yo yourself, “I know that! That’s the polite way to say さん ( = san), right?”
Yes, that’s right. But there is more to it!
こんにちは！= Konnichiwa! はじめまして = Hajimemashite = Nice to meet you!
We are your guest teachers, Zelda and Naryu.
Today’s lesson is about 様 ( = さま= sama)
I will teach you when to use 様 ( = さま= sama) along with lots of expressions with 様 ( = さま= sama)
★ name + 様 ( = sama)
As many of you know, you address other people with さん ( = san) / ちゃん ( = chan) (for children/ girls/ women) / 君 ( = kun) (for boys/men)
If you want to address someone in a polite way,
→family name + 様 ( = sama)
Note: 様 ( = さま = sama) and さん ( = san )are gender neutral and can be used for men and women.
* 田中様 = Tanaka sama = Mr./Ms. Tanaka
* 鈴木様 = Suzuki sama = Mr./Ms. Suzuki
= Suzuki sama ga omachi desu.
= Mr./Ms. Suzuki is waiting for you.
= Murakami sama yori odenwa ga arimashita.
= Mr./Ms. Murakami called you.
Even if you usually address someone as さん ( = san) , ちゃん ( = chan) / 君 ( = kun) or even without any of them (called 呼び捨て( = yobisute)), if you write their name on an envelope or postcard, you use 様 ( = sama).
= Katou Ichirou sama
= Mr. Ichiro Kato
(* When you write a full name in Japanese, you start with one’s family name)
You also use 様 ( = sama) when you address a customer at a store, postoffice, bank, hotel, restaurant, etc.
= Kawaguchi sama, omatase itashimashita.
= Sorry to have kept you waiting, Mr./Ms. Kawaguchi.
★Address super stars who you love/worship with 様 ( = sama)
Sometimes a fan (especially women) add ( = sama) when referring to their favorite celebrity / idol /super star, etc.
These examples are fairly old but,
a Korean actor, ペ・ヨンジュン (Bae Yong Joon) became very popular among middle aged women in Japan and he was called,
→ヨン様 ( = Yon sama)
レオナルド・ディカプリオ ( Leonardo DiCaprio）used to be called レオ様 ( = Reo sama)
So the fans address their idols (usually which someone with charisma) as 様 ( = sama)
Ex. ガガ様 = GAGA sama = Ms. Gaga
★Showing your respect in business/formal situation.
Besides someone’s name, you attach 様 ( = sama) when you address someone/ a group of people to show your respect in business/formal situation.
= okyaku sama
= polite way to refer to a customer/client
= Juuban de omachi no okyaku sama
= (literal meaning) A customer who has been waiting with a number 10.
* お子様 = おこさま = okosama = child / children
= Okosama wo otsure no okyakusama wa gotoujou kudasai.
= We are inviting passengers who are with small children to board.
A lot of family restaurants serve kids lunch called お子様ランチ ( = okosama ranchi)
* 皆様 = みなさま = minasama = everybody
= Gokazoku no minasama ni yoroshiku otsutae kudasai.
= Please say hello to everyone in your family.
Note: A lot of Japanese learners say みんな様 ( = minnasama ) but it is みなさま ( = minasama)
You don’t attach 様 ( = sama ) to みんな ( = minna) which is more casual way to say “everyone”
* number + person + 様 ( =sama) / Who
* お一人様 = おひとりさま = ohitorisama = one person
* 一名様 = いちめいさま= ichimeisama = one person
* 何名様 = なんめいさま = nanmei sama = How many people (in your group)?
at the entrance of a restaurant,
= Namei sama de shou ka?
= For how many people?
= Futari desu.
= For two.
* どちら様 =どちらさま= dochirasama = who
(Answering the phone.)
= Dochira sama deshou ka?
= Who is it?
When you refer to other people’s family politely
* お父様 = おとうさま= otousama = someone’s father
* お母様 = おかあさま = okaasama = someone’s mother
* お兄様 = おにいさま = oniisama = someone’s older brother
* お姉様 = おねえさま = oneesama = someone’s older sister
* 奥様 = おくさま= okusama = someone’s wife
* ご主人様 = ごしゅじんさま = goshujin sama = someone’s husband
* ご子息様 = ごしそくさま= goshisoku sama = someone’s son
* お嬢様 = おじょうさま= ojousama = someone’s daughter / lady /refers to a girl who was raised in a wealthy family (Sometimes it is used sarcastically “a spoiled rich girl”
Note: The equivalent male word is お坊ちゃん ( = obocchan) / お坊ちゃま ( = obocchama)
*ご先祖様 = ごせんぞさま= gosenzo sama = one’s ancestors.
★to express one’s respect or feeling of awe
1) God / noble people such as lords, royal families and so on.
* 神様 = かみさま= kamisama = God
* 氏神様 = うじがみさま= ujigami sama = Local Shinto shrine deity
* 仏様 = ほとけさま= hotoke sama = Buddha
* お地蔵様 = おじぞうさま= ojizousama = guardian deity of chil
2) royal family/ high ranking people
* 王様 = おおさま = oosama = king
* 女王様 = じょおうさま（じょうおうさま） = joousama ( jouousama) = queen
* 王子様= おうじさま = oujisama = prince
* お姫様= おひめさま= ohimesama = princess
* (お)殿様 = (お) とのさま = (o) tonosama = a feudal lord in Japan
3) the moon/sun/ thunder
It sounds more friendlier to say with お～様 ( = o ~ sama )
(Especially when you talk to children)
* お月様 = おつきさま= otsukisama = the moon
* お星様 = おほしさま= ohoshisama = the stars
* お日様 = おひさま= ohisama = the sun
* お天道様 =おてんとうさま = otentousama (or おてんと様= otento sama) the sun (* A little old fashioned)
* 雷様 = かみなりさま= kaminari sama = thunder
★ Negative/vulgar usage
*何様 = なにさま = nani sama
= Nani sama dato omotte iru no?
= Who do you think you are?
* 貴様 = きさま = kisama (blunt/strong/male speech)
Now, the kanji 貴 is read き( = ki) / 貴い ( = たっとい= tattoi) 貴い ( = とうとい = toutoi) which means “noble” / “esteem”
So you might naturally think 貴様 ( = kisama) is an honorific expression. It was so long time ago but now it is a very strong insulting word for “you”.
(When you are angry to someone)
= You son of a bxxx!
* 俺様 = おれさま = oresama (when you refer to yourself/male speech)
It is a very arrogant way to refer to yourself.
「俺様の言うことがわからないのか。」 (vulgar/strong/male speech)
= Oresama no iu koto ga wakaranai no ka.
= Don’t you understand what I’m saying?!
Note: I don’t think you will ever use 貴様 ( = kisama) and 俺様（ = oresama) but you may hear/see them in comic books/ anime or TV dramas or movies.
* Sarcastic usage:
= Oerai sama
= big shot
You also say お偉いさん ( = Oeraisan) higher-up
= Oerai sama no iu koto ni wa shitagawa naito.
= I have to follow what my GREAT higher-up says.
* to refer to someone who behaves selfish way/arrogantly/ like a king or queen.
For example, a girl whose name is Mariko behaves like a queen or is bossy,
= Mariko sama no gokigen ga mata warui.
= Queen Mariko is in a bad mood again.
★Expressions with 様 ( = sama)
Some of the following expressions with 様 ( = sama) are VERY Japanese and there is no simple English equivalent translation and changes the meaning depending on the context so I will show you when you say them with these example sentences.
*お疲れ様 = おつかれさま = Otsukare sama
(more casual お疲れさん= おつかれさん= Otsukare san)
= (Literal meaning) Thank you for your hard work. / You must be tired after your hard work.
It is an expression that you want to tell that person that you are aware that they have worked hard or did a nice job.
But a lot of time, you just say that instead of saying good-bye.
For example someone leaves the office before you do, they say,
= Osaki ni shitsurei shimasu.
= (Literal meaning) Allow me to leave here while you are still working.
= (I’m done for today. Bye / See you tomorrow, etc.)
You can tell that person,
= Otsukare sama deshita.
= Thank you for working hard/ Or simply Good-bye (See you tomorrow/next week)
If someone works for you / gives you some service, such as delivering packages, carpenters, plumbers fixing something at your house, etc, you tell them
*ご苦労様 = ごくろうさま = Gokurou sama
(more casual ご苦労さん= ごくろうさん= gokurousan)
= (Literal meaning) Thank you for your hard work
Note: *You don’t sayご苦労様 ( = gokurousama) to someone superior to you.
* お互い様 = おたがいさま = Otagai sama
= Likewise / Right back at you / Same here / You, too!/ Something mutual
= Komatta toki wa otagai sama.
= It is natural to help each other when we are in trouble. / We are supposed to help each other.
= Taihen nano wa otagai sama da.
= We are both going through the hard time. (You are not alone. / You are not the only one who is having a difficult time.)
= Mata atarashii konnpyuutaa katta no? Hontou ni mudazukai nandakara.
= You bought a new computer again? You really are wasting your money, aren’t you?
= Otagai sama dayo. Kono aida shinsha wo kattan daro.
= Look who’s talking. I heard you bought a new car the other day.
* ご馳走様 = ごちそうさま = Gochisou sama
You say that after you finish eating a meal to show your appreciation for the meal.
when someone treats you
After meal at a restaurant
= Kyou wa boku ga ogoru kara (harawanakute) iiyo.
= It’s on me today so you don’t have to pay.
= Thank you for treating me.
To say thank you to someone who gave you something to eat.
= Kono aida wa oishii keeki wo gochisou sama deshita.
= Thank you for the delicious cake the other day.
* ご愁傷様 = ごしゅうしょうさま = Goshuushou sama.
= My condolences.
To a person who lost one’s family at a funeral or awake:
= Kono tabi wa goshuuchou sama desu.
= My condolences.
* お待ちどう様 = おまちどうさま = omachidou sama (casual)
= Thank you for waiting. / I am sorry to have kept you waiting.
When you are late, you tell someone who has been waiting for you.
more polite: お待たせしました ( = omatase shimashita) /(more polite) お待たせいたいたしました。( = omatase itashimashita)
/ When you apologize: お待たせして申し訳ありません。( = omatase shite moushiwake arimasen.)
* お気の毒様 = おきのどくさま = Okinodoku sama
= I am sorry to hear that. / I am sorry for someone/ What a shame
To show your sympathy to someone.
It is OK to use it when you talk about a third person but you may want to avoid using it when talking directly to someone because some people may think you are kind of looking down on them as in, “I pity you.” in English.
It is often used sarcastically.
= Kyou wa tsuite naina.
= It is not my day today.
= Doushita no?
= What happened?
= Kanojo ni furareta.
= She broke up on me.
= Sore wa okinodoku sama.
= That’s too bad for you.
* お生憎様 = おあいにくさま = oainiku sama
= That’s too bad (Sometimes you say that sarcastically: Sorry to disappoint you but ~ / Sorry I can’t meet your expectations.)
Ex. A man: 「えっ？僕に会いに来たの？」
= Eh? Boku ni aini kite kuretano?
= What? Did you come to see me?
A woman: 「お生憎様。友達に会いに来たの。」
= Oainiku sama. Tomodachi ni aini kitano.
= Sorry to disappoint you. I came here to meet my friend.
* お粗末様 = おそまつさま = osomatsu sama
The literal meaning is “poor quality of food”
A person who makes a meal says this after someone says ご馳走様 ( = gochisousama) Thank you for the meal, in a humble way.
= Gochisou sama deshita.
= Thank you for the delicious meal.
= Osomatsu sama deshita.
= It was nothing special.
* おかげ様（お陰様/お蔭様)で= おかげさまで= okagesama de = thanks to you
= Okagesama de shiken ni ukarimashtia.
= Thanks to you, I passed the exam.
You also say that to a person who has nothing to do with that matter.
= Ogenki deshitaka?
= How have you been?
= Hai, okagesama de.
= Yes, I’ve been good. Thank you.
= Okega wa mou naorimashita ka?
= Has your injury healed yet?
= Hai, okagesama de sukkari naorimashita.
= Yes, thank you. It has healed completely.
This is just an expression but let me add one more.
*午前様 = ごぜんさま= gozensama = to stay out after midnight
= Kyou mo shigoto de gozensama da.
= I got home past midnight for work again
Zelda 先生、Nayru 先生、お疲れ様！
= Zelda Sensei, Nayru Sensei, otsukare sama!
= Thank you for your work, Zelda Sensei and Nayru Sensei.
= Okagesama de kono saito mo juunen wo mukaeru koto ga dekimashita.
= Thanks to you, it has been 10 years since we started this site.
= Shoujiki itte, konnani nagai aida tsuzuku to wa souzou mo shite imasendeshita.
= Honestly we had never imagined that it would last this long.
= Korekara mo ganbatte tanoshii ressun wo ippai tsukutte ikimasune.
= We will keep making more and more fun lessons!
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